Ya’ll really dont get how flimsy that whole ‘anti-contact’ is.
My abuser was anti contact. All it took for him to change that was me, my trust, and a character to roleplay with.
The moment MAPS get a chance to seek out their desires, they go for it. I have experienced it first hand. I was 12, I was dumb, naive, and i loved to roleplay characters.
And he used that to his advantage.
So dont you EVER fucking try to use the excuse ‘oh im anti contact, ill never do anything!’ because you know what? All it takes is one childs trust, their eagerness to please an adult like YOU, and youll go off the rack. You know why I hate MAPS?
Because an ‘Anti-Contact’ MAP quickly became a ‘Contact’ MAP with me. Cut the bullshit out of your lives and stop hiding behind false coverups in an attempt to seem as if you are good.
You are not good. You need therapy. You need to stay as far fucking away from tumblr and all the minors on it (43 percent of this entire website are minors- get the fuck out of here if you really are ‘Anti-Contact’)
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My abuser was anti contact. All it took for him to change that was me, my trust, and a character to roleplay with.
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Same thing that happened with me. So that’s definitely not just a one-case scenario.
I don’t know if my abuser considered himself anti contact but I do know that he really seemed to have himself convinced that everything he was doing was fine and harmless. He really had it rationalized to a tee. I think that’s really common with child molesters, convincing themselves that everything’s fine and that they aren’t ~real~ abusers in the moment, they’d only be ~real~ abusers if they did x y and z. Any rationalization by any pedophile is ALWAYS a danger, and too many “maps” on here practice fucked up rationalization whenever it suits them.
Don’t rationalize sexual attraction to kids. At best, it’s a mental illness that needs psychiatric attention if your thoughts/emotions/attractions towards children can’t be controlled. Don’t set the line at the bare minimum of controlling physical actions, because there is so much building up to that which needs to be addressed. If you honestly do not want any children to get hurt by you, ACT NOW and get yourself treatment!
