Love Always,

[Love Always,]

[the-transdiscourse]

Real fucking quick

Pronouns are not an option. You don’t get to choose whether you do or do not use someone’s correct pronouns. When someone comes out to you as a trans man, you don’t get to say “I respect you as a trans man, but I’m not comfortable calling you ‘he’ bc you’ve always been ‘she’ to me! ^^” No. You don’t get that option. Get over it. That trans MAN is HE or you don’t talk to him. That trans WOMAN is SHE or you don’t talk to her. You also don’t get to not use someone’s pronouns bc you don’t like them. The amount of times I’ve seen people call me “they/them” bc they didn’t like my views despite my pronouns being he/him ONLY is astounding. That is misgendering. Yes, even though it is neutral, that is still misgendering.

Another, less aggressive thing. When we come out to you, it isn’t necessary for you to tell us how you’re going to mess up bc you’ve known us as ___/ you’ll have trouble remembering/etc. We know people are going to mess up. That’s okay, as long as you’re trying and being respectful. Idk about other trans people, but it makes me feel bothersome. We know this is new and we expect slip ups. Completely understandable.

[milostransition]

The only time I call someone “they/them” pronouns is if they ask or I don’t know what pronouns are.

[the-transdiscourse]

Oh, absolutely. Of course you would use them in those cases. I have seen people who don’t like the whole “use they/them if you can’t tell someone’s pronouns” thing but I’m all for it.

[Love Always,]

@bi-and-tranny-incels get your crusty, transphobic, biphobic, nasty ass off of my blog. Thanks.

[Love Always,]

[danes-transition]

Sometimes I’m kinda envious of lgbtq+ people who have supportive parents. Shoutout to all the parents out there who actually take the time to understand and love and be proud of their lgbtq+ children.

[Love Always,]

[cute-slytherfuck]

I know this meme is dead for weeks but I’m very proud of these so here have them anyway

[yuna-hates-pedos]

Die

[the-transdiscourse]

“Not all MAPs are pedophiles”

Not all Minor Attracted Persons are pedophiles.

Not all people attracted to children are people attracted to children~

[Love Always,]

[demons-against-pedos]

Kid: pedophilia,,,, is bad

Pedophile: sounds like something a child rapist would say you disgusting freak why do you want to rape children????? Antis are dangerous and delusional, unlike me,,, the pedophile, ,

[nomap-seiko]

NOMAPs: pedophilia is an unchosen attraction that we choose not to act on because we actually care about children and know offending is wrong

Antis: OH SO YOU THINK ITS OK TO RAPE KIDS??? YOU’RE A DISGUSTING SUBHUMAN WHO HURTS CHILDREN JUST BY EXISTING ALSO KILL YOURSELF!!!

[jasonthenomap3]

Really, the fact that the anti had to label themself as a “kid” to make them look more innocent says something.

[demons-against-pedos]

Its actually because I saw a post by a 13 year old and they got compared to a rapist by a “nomap” but, okay

[wynx-hates-pedos]

Nomap-seiko and and jasonthemap3 you literally just proved that OP’s example was in no way an exaggeration omfg.

[Love Always,]

[saywhat-politics]

Because Sometimes You Can’t Not Make Nazi Comparisons

“These are no longer humans, these are animals”

[cheskamouse]

Fact: Godwin’s Law no longer applies, Godwin himself said so.

[nikolatesla-go]

[Love Always,]

[david-hates-maps]

Ya’ll really dont get how flimsy that whole ‘anti-contact’ is.

My abuser was anti contact. All it took for him to change that was me, my trust, and a character to roleplay with. 

The moment MAPS get a chance to seek out their desires, they go for it. I have experienced it first hand. I was 12, I was dumb, naive, and i loved to roleplay characters.

And he used that to his advantage. 

So dont you EVER fucking try to use the excuse ‘oh im anti contact, ill never do anything!’ because you know what? All it takes is one childs trust, their eagerness to please an adult like YOU, and youll go off the rack. You know why I hate MAPS?

Because an ‘Anti-Contact’ MAP quickly became a ‘Contact’ MAP with me. Cut the bullshit out of your lives and stop hiding behind false coverups in an attempt to seem as if you are good. 

You are not good. You need therapy. You need to stay as far fucking away from tumblr and all the minors on it (43 percent of this entire website are minors- get the fuck out of here if you really are ‘Anti-Contact’)

[wynx-hates-pedos]

“ My abuser was anti contact. All it took for him to change that was me, my trust, and a character to roleplay with. “
Same thing that happened with me. So that’s definitely not just a one-case scenario.

[child-abuse-isnt-sexy]

I don’t know if my abuser considered himself anti contact but I do know that he really seemed to have himself convinced that everything he was doing was fine and harmless. He really had it rationalized to a tee. I think that’s really common with child molesters, convincing themselves that everything’s fine and that they aren’t ~real~ abusers in the moment, they’d only be ~real~ abusers if they did x y and z. Any rationalization by any pedophile is ALWAYS a danger, and too many “maps” on here practice fucked up rationalization whenever it suits them.

[soundlessdragon]

Don’t rationalize sexual attraction to kids. At best, it’s a mental illness that needs psychiatric attention if your thoughts/emotions/attractions towards children can’t be controlled. Don’t set the line at the bare minimum of controlling physical actions, because there is so much building up to that which needs to be addressed. If you honestly do not want any children to get hurt by you, ACT NOW and get yourself treatment!

[Love Always,]

[chimera-bones]

Pro-NB truscum please unfollow. You’re a blight on the transmed community, so quit using our label too.

[the-transdiscourse]

Follow me instead! And use whatever label you want. It’s just a label.

[chimera-bones]

The thing about labels is that they have meaning attached to them.

[the-transdiscourse]

They do. Transmed/truscum is a label used by people who believe (know) dysphoria is needed to be trans. So if you believe (know) that, whether trans or cis or nb, call yourself a transmed/truscum if you want. It’s just a label.

[Love Always,]

[kuroshirocourse]

extreme transmeds are just as damaging to the trans/transmed communities as extreme tucutes. both regularly demonstrate intolerance of others arguing for different positions, turn against members of their own communities over it, and give their communities a bad reputation as a mob of closed-minded assholes who can’t handle disagreements in a respectful manner

[the-transdiscourse]

TRUE TRUE TRUE.

[Love Always,]

Real fucking quick

Pronouns are not an option. You don’t get to choose whether you do or do not use someone’s correct pronouns. When someone comes out to you as a trans man, you don’t get to say “I respect you as a trans man, but I’m not comfortable calling you ‘he’ bc you’ve always been 'she’ to me! ^^” No. You don’t get that option. Get over it. That trans MAN is HE or you don’t talk to him. That trans WOMAN is SHE or you don’t talk to her. You also don’t get to not use someone’s pronouns bc you don’t like them. The amount of times I’ve seen people call me “they/them” bc they didn’t like my views despite my pronouns being he/him ONLY is astounding. That is misgendering. Yes, even though it is neutral, that is still misgendering.

Another, less aggressive thing. When we come out to you, it isn’t necessary for you to tell us how you’re going to mess up bc you’ve known us as ___/ you’ll have trouble remembering/etc. We know people are going to mess up. That’s okay, as long as you’re trying and being respectful. Idk about other trans people, but it makes me feel bothersome. We know this is new and we expect slip ups. Completely understandable.